...in New York City with the loves of my life. They are getting so big and I miss them more by the day. My little girl is reading like a pro and I am blown away by how smart she is. Beauty aside, they are both such sweethearts and they melt my heart. I cried the day before we had to part ways, couldn't control myself...again the thought of being apart hurts deep inside my heart and we both (Remi & I) cried the day we left.
This little person was my best friend, the only friend I had right next to me when I first moved here and she was only 1 & 1/2 year old. When I talk about them is like talking about my own kids, is just different. I love kids but I know a lot of people who don't or just plain don't understand the connection we have. It wasn't just a job for me and I am glad they are still part of my life and forever will be
This little person was my best friend, the only friend I had right next to me when I first moved here and she was only 1 & 1/2 year old. When I talk about them is like talking about my own kids, is just different. I love kids but I know a lot of people who don't or just plain don't understand the connection we have. It wasn't just a job for me and I am glad they are still part of my life and forever will be
Well,
Some of you already know, but I am back to the single life. Yeah, didn't last long right? 3 months were enough to see that the other half of the relationship was trying to turn me into somebody I am not. I am the friendly type, my family and my friends are super important and vital part of my life...he didn't care.
He was so selfish, self-centered and narcissistic that I couldn't deal with it and with the few good things put aside, we were not compatible...so better off alone. Didn't surprise me the way we broke up, trust me, not the regular and mature way, because he couldn't find time or will to do so. I am not mad or sad about the whole thing, I am relieved! Swear to God, it was the right decision and I am not upset about it at all, but he is...his loss.
That aside, I am fine after having to run to the Emergency room with both ears clogged and one of them infected. I couldn't hear a thing for 5 days...it was awful! But now I am taking antibiotics and I can't drink...damn! ;-) It's so cold here and I can't even enjoy the booze to warm up!
Now I am gonna focus on my life as a single woman and I can tell you there are quite a few guys that were heartbroken when I broke the news I was in a relationship, so one of them knows that I am single and is super happy...ha! Lets see what happens.
Have a great week! Hope the cold weather doesn't hurt none of us and that you guys stay safe!
xoxo
Some of you already know, but I am back to the single life. Yeah, didn't last long right? 3 months were enough to see that the other half of the relationship was trying to turn me into somebody I am not. I am the friendly type, my family and my friends are super important and vital part of my life...he didn't care.
He was so selfish, self-centered and narcissistic that I couldn't deal with it and with the few good things put aside, we were not compatible...so better off alone. Didn't surprise me the way we broke up, trust me, not the regular and mature way, because he couldn't find time or will to do so. I am not mad or sad about the whole thing, I am relieved! Swear to God, it was the right decision and I am not upset about it at all, but he is...his loss.
That aside, I am fine after having to run to the Emergency room with both ears clogged and one of them infected. I couldn't hear a thing for 5 days...it was awful! But now I am taking antibiotics and I can't drink...damn! ;-) It's so cold here and I can't even enjoy the booze to warm up!
Now I am gonna focus on my life as a single woman and I can tell you there are quite a few guys that were heartbroken when I broke the news I was in a relationship, so one of them knows that I am single and is super happy...ha! Lets see what happens.
Have a great week! Hope the cold weather doesn't hurt none of us and that you guys stay safe!
xoxo
Of course, there is not a single relatioship that has no drama from time to time. I thought mine wouldn't have, because I am not a dramatic person, but he is...hahaha. He is so freakishly afraid of of getting hurt that at the first bump on the road he shut down. I was like wow! What's going on, but I finally gave him the ultimatum, or he gets over this stupid misunderstanding or I could not keep going like this...guess it worked. ;-)
I spent the whole weekend miserable with a cold, sore throat, sinus, everything came out at the same time, incredible! But I am feeling better now, even though my day didn't start very well, but like I said I put my foot down and got things back on track.
Confess that I was heartbroken. Somehow I was sad that someone could consider giving up on something so good and fun. We have so much fun when we are together...or even apart. I am a very silly person (my friends are witnesses), and we are always doing something fun.
He is a good man, but only son...so from that you can picture the situation. Never married, no kids (Thank God!), but he needs to chill his pill and open himself for a relationship...something he wants so bad, but doesn't know how to deal with.
I am not going to Florida anymore...was going to spend Christmas there with him and his family (totally a scene from a movie, right?), but it's not happening anymore...for different reasons...but mostly because things were going too fast, so we are slowing things down a bit.
Tomorrow, dinner, movie date. Then Saturday we are heading to Connecticut...he wants to look at houses there. We were going to NYC to see the X-Mas decoration, but he wanted to change the plans...so be it. Next week he is taking me to see my first NBA (Basketball) game. I confess I am very excited. Last week he took me to this recital of classical music and it was beautiful and sweet (trust me, I can appreciate classical music and enjoyed every second of it)...but then came the fatidic episode...well, that's over and buried now.
I like him a lot, but like anything in life, it's a big risk to put myself out there, but if I don't do it, I will never know...right? ;-) Wish me luck my friends!
XOXO
Love you all and thank you for coming back. I will try to keep this updated. Since I moved, it's been very crazy and busy, then came the boyfriend...so you know...little time...not even to Tweet as much as I wanted. Dominica is the Queen of Twitter! Viva Dominica! hahaha
I spent the whole weekend miserable with a cold, sore throat, sinus, everything came out at the same time, incredible! But I am feeling better now, even though my day didn't start very well, but like I said I put my foot down and got things back on track.
Confess that I was heartbroken. Somehow I was sad that someone could consider giving up on something so good and fun. We have so much fun when we are together...or even apart. I am a very silly person (my friends are witnesses), and we are always doing something fun.
He is a good man, but only son...so from that you can picture the situation. Never married, no kids (Thank God!), but he needs to chill his pill and open himself for a relationship...something he wants so bad, but doesn't know how to deal with.
I am not going to Florida anymore...was going to spend Christmas there with him and his family (totally a scene from a movie, right?), but it's not happening anymore...for different reasons...but mostly because things were going too fast, so we are slowing things down a bit.
Tomorrow, dinner, movie date. Then Saturday we are heading to Connecticut...he wants to look at houses there. We were going to NYC to see the X-Mas decoration, but he wanted to change the plans...so be it. Next week he is taking me to see my first NBA (Basketball) game. I confess I am very excited. Last week he took me to this recital of classical music and it was beautiful and sweet (trust me, I can appreciate classical music and enjoyed every second of it)...but then came the fatidic episode...well, that's over and buried now.
I like him a lot, but like anything in life, it's a big risk to put myself out there, but if I don't do it, I will never know...right? ;-) Wish me luck my friends!
XOXO
Love you all and thank you for coming back. I will try to keep this updated. Since I moved, it's been very crazy and busy, then came the boyfriend...so you know...little time...not even to Tweet as much as I wanted. Dominica is the Queen of Twitter! Viva Dominica! hahaha
...sick. Sore throat and everything else that comes along. :-(
Alessandra
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Where should I start? I have no clue. So much has been happening lately, mostly good things and I am so overwhelmed that I have zero time or energy to update the blog and I feel guilty...but just a little bit.
Work has been very good and sometimes challenging (which I love), but no big deal for anybody else...just me, myself and I. It's crazy how time goes fast and today (Sunday) marks a month already since I moved to the apartment. Things are getting done and looking better each week (mostly because of me), but that's just how I am...I can't wait for anybody else, so I go ahead and do it. Which in my books is not a good thing, since you have roommates, they all should somehow participate. Michelle is the best, even though she has her problems, everyday when I get home from work and she is gone to school, everything is neat and clean, mostly my laundry is done and folded on my bed...yay! So because of that and to show my appreciation I do little things, like dinner, etc.
I am finally gonna buy my car, so I started to look for cars (which is hard!)...unless you have a lot of money to buy a brand new car, you gonna have to do a lot of research and pray that you are not buying a lemon. So please...wish me luck!
The dating is getting serious by the day, we speak everyday, more than once or txt. He is nerdy, but he is just the kind of man I like...yeah...I don't like boys, never did, I like man! So with respect to that I am more than happy and since he went on a trip to Chicago on Friday and just got back today (Sunday), I will get to see him on Monday and Tuesday...and who knows, maybe Wednesday too. Then, he is off to Florida and if I don't get to fly down there for Thanksgiving, I won't see him for almost 10 days (which is not a good thing).
I've been a nice GF, even got to cook him dinner, which he approved and my roommate ate the left over and loved it too. Hahahahaha...she said was the best food she has ever eaten...and she doesn't own me anything, so why would she lie, right? hahaha
Besides that, plans for New Year's Eve in Philadelphia with him and after that only God knows. I am very excited about this whole thing. He is a very sweet man and caring and I love his nice emails that I get almost every morning and our conversations...so who knows how long this bliss is gonna last, but all I can say is that I am loving every second of it. Love smart people that are not boring and are funny, and that's just few of his qualities.
Well...now I am gonna go, watch some good ol' TV and sleep with my body pillow, because tomorrow night I won't need a body pillow, if you know what I mean! Ha!
Have a wonderful week and I will be checking your blogs. xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
